Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Are you an optimustic person????



Be optimistic




life is like ammiror.so, smile in it




Be thankful person






How to Be Optimistic???

While you can be a healthy way to avoid getting taken advantage of, being pessimistic - that is, always assuming the worst - can have major negative consequences on your life. Seeing only the negative aspects of any situation can cause you to miss opportunities, neglect problems that need to be solved, and fail to take action that would otherwise improve your relationships and quality of life. Optimists look for the light at the end the tunnel. If you've always had a pessimistic worldview, it can be difficult to shift your focus, but it is possible to start seeing the glass as half full, not half empty.
Rememeber:
If you fail in Aplane. You plane for fail

Smile and don't forbid your self to enter the happiness in your brother's hearts



My Advices for you


1)Look for the source of your pessimism.



2)Understand that the past does not equal the future



3)See yourself as a cause, not an effect.


4)Be thankful. Everyone has something to be grateful for. Make a list of the good things that have happened to you.



5)Remember that life is short.



6)Be a balanced optimist.



Warnings
Avoid negative people. If you can't avoid them, learn how to not let them get you down.
Don't confuse pessimism with depression. Depression can make everything look worse than it is.
While it is true that you create your own circumstances, accept that the past is the past. Don't let negative circumstances trigger irrational guilt.
Realize that it's not about what happens to you, it's about how you react to what happens.



this is video about optimistic

please open and enjoy